Lumihis na ang usapan at hindi mo na nasagot ang mga katanungan ko sa simpleng bagay na pagpapalaki ng anak ng magulang na parehas ang kasarian. Ang naging sagot mo lang ay kaya o kakayanin tutal may mga kamag anak naman. Meron pa ... magaling naman iyung ibang magulang kasi fashion designer sila ... ang "galing" mo naman sumagot at umiwas.
Hindi ako umiiwas. I'm just not answering what you want to hear. Na-post ko na ang mga studies na ang mga batang lumaki sa same sex parents do just as well as those of opposite sex parents, on the average. It shows that the biological gender of the parents matters very little if you raise the child with love and care. Ayaw ka naman maniwala.
You are still stuck in the gender-box mentality (men = breadwinners; women = nurturers). You also seem to have a low opinion on adoption, that someone could not possibly love a child not biologically their own or at least not as much.
You seem to also place a value on conformity to the majority and blind obedience to the authority (which is what I meant when I said that's why it took the Philippines centuries to kick out Spain, na-brainwash na tayo ng mga prayle which lives to this day, unfortunately).
You don't seem to place a value on individuality. You seem to champion to fit in as much as possible and not rock the boat as much as possible. A child from a same sex family comes from a family that's not in the majority, true. And he may get flak for it. But so will the child that comes from a single parent family, a child that comes from a family of a different religion, or a child coming from a different culture, etc. Lahat tayo iba-iba. May kanila-kanilang ka-weirdohan. Being raised by a same-sex couple is NO DIFFERENT from those.
You seem to be of the mindset that if your child gets bullied, it must be the fault of your child. Your child is doing something way too weird to be a target of bullies. If your son likes to wear pink, and he gets bullied for it, you probably think it's your son's fault and not the bullies' fault. Personally, there's nothing wrong with a boy wearing pink. If a boy wants to wear pink, he should have the freedom to do so. Gusto niya yan, eh. Wala naman siya sinasaktan. Ano pakialam ng iba kung ano ang gusto niya?
