Joan2,
To a certain extent, yes, do buy what your ears like .I also find myself enjoying listening to directly heated single ended valve amplifiers. I don't buy them, not because they are expensive, but because I know the reason why tube sounds are pleasant. It is because of even-ordered harmonic distortions that at generous servings of 0.5% to 3% do give the sound a lot of pleasing body and presence that IS NOT SUPPOSED TO BE THERE coming out of the speakers.
Those numbers, done properly from an honest intention, is a good inidcation of performance. There is a history behind those numbers that were arrived at by consensus from audio engineers and audiophiles and are meant to allow objective evalution and comparison of these equipment, Measuring instruments can't mask, hide details or lie. But the ears and the mind can. Admittedly, the marketing guys can distort those figures to what the consumers want to hear and buy.
They won't tell everything, ofcourse. The ears are the final judge (and the wife the executioner,
). But they're a good start. I certainly wouldn't waste my time to even consider auditoning an amp specified with 1% THD at rated power like one Pioneer HT receiver I've seen. Or an amp whose power rating is measured at 1Kz only or worst, in PMPO. Or whose specs are silent about IM and Slew rates and Rise times, interchannel crosstalk, noise floors and dynamic ranges, etc. I will only auditioni if i find the specs honest and complete and up to my liking or standards.
Rather than ignore them, maybe it'sa good idea to educate consumers about them, so they don't get duped by savy marketers of lousy products. Then again, maybe not knowing about these number is just fine so savy marketers can't use those numbers to dupe consumers. In my case, I am just too old in the hobby not to know.